Everybody wants to be happy in life. We all want to live a perfect life. We want that great job or a successful business. We want to be married to Mr. Right or Mrs Perfect. We want to have great kids. We want to have friends that stick by us. We want to be able to have all the material things life has to offer and have all our problems just disappear.

But Actually Life is bit different, or a bit difficult.
Like - your boss will not always be the nicest person in the world. Your job will have challenges that you did not foresee. Your workmates will sometimes be a pain. You won’t always get the salary and recognition that you want and deserve at work. Your clients may not be the nicest people in the world. your kids won’t always be the ideal kids you want them to be. Your wife or husband may not be as perfect as you thought they were when you married them.
I know that at times you feel that it’s all very confusing and just too hard. I mean you have worked very hard. You’ve done all that you possibly could in your life whether it is at work or at home. But things just don’t seem to have worked out as well as you had planned or hoped. It all just seems to have gone wrong and you don’t know or understand how or why.
But that’s okay. It’s normal. That’s what being human is all about. That’s what life is all about. Accept that. Accepting doesn't mean that you will go with the flow, Remember only dead fishes go with the flow.

BUT

You can make your life better. You have total responsibility for what you do and how you respond to the fact that life is difficult.
Because the only person you have any control over is yourself. You cannot change other people. No matter what situation you are in, you have a choice. No matter how bad things are, you have a choice. No matter what you think you can or cannot do, you have a choice. It may be a very difficult choice and the road you decide to take may be a tough one. It may push you way out of your comfort zone. It may mean that in the initial period your life may get even harder than it already is.

A lot of times you will actually find that the choices are not as hard as you thought they were.Once you become open to the idea that you are responsible for your life and that you have choices, you will find that you are no longer stuck just because life is difficult. So i would say these ideas and the choices are those ingredients with the help of these You can prepare your lemonade.