Abhishek Rajput

Everybody wants to be happy in life. We all want to live a perfect life. We want that great job or a successful business. We want to be married to Mr. Right or Mrs Perfect. We want to have great kids. We want to have friends that stick by us. We want to be able to have all the material things life has to offer and have all our problems just disappear.

But Actually Life is bit different, or a bit difficult.
Like - your boss will not always be the nicest person in the world. Your job will have challenges that you did not foresee. Your workmates will sometimes be a pain. You won’t always get the salary and recognition that you want and deserve at work. Your clients may not be the nicest people in the world. your kids won’t always be the ideal kids you want them to be. Your wife or husband may not be as perfect as you thought they were when you married them.
I know that at times you feel that it’s all very confusing and just too hard. I mean you have worked very hard. You’ve done all that you possibly could in your life whether it is at work or at home. But things just don’t seem to have worked out as well as you had planned or hoped. It all just seems to have gone wrong and you don’t know or understand how or why.
But that’s okay. It’s normal. That’s what being human is all about. That’s what life is all about. Accept that. Accepting doesn't mean that you will go with the flow, Remember only dead fishes go with the flow.

BUT

You can make your life better. You have total responsibility for what you do and how you respond to the fact that life is difficult.
Because the only person you have any control over is yourself. You cannot change other people. No matter what situation you are in, you have a choice. No matter how bad things are, you have a choice. No matter what you think you can or cannot do, you have a choice. It may be a very difficult choice and the road you decide to take may be a tough one. It may push you way out of your comfort zone. It may mean that in the initial period your life may get even harder than it already is.

A lot of times you will actually find that the choices are not as hard as you thought they were.Once you become open to the idea that you are responsible for your life and that you have choices, you will find that you are no longer stuck just because life is difficult. So i would say these ideas and the choices are those ingredients with the help of these You can prepare your lemonade.

The definition seems to be correct but in our lives most people take it in other way. They consider discipline as setback or a restriction of their freedom. But actually let me tell you folks, it really gives you the kind of a freedom which you always looking for. Many people I have seen they kept saying to their parents, guardians or their bosses that I want to be free.. Let me do what I want to do...(or I know better than you). Because they consider discipline is making them fall behind.
let’s take an example.. Folks, what if train goes off the track - will it be able to reach it destination. What if you leave the steering wheel of your car, will it reach drive you safely home. What if you drive anywhere on the road or you don’t follow the course of the road would you be able to reach where you want to. Exactly the same guys being in discipline or following the rules or guidance actually give you wings. Now most you would be thinking that "Rules are meant to be broken". Even my friends I agree with you that break the rules but my friends follow the laws. Discipline is kind of law to be successful in life.

Discipline is really an act of love, care and affection. Sometimes you have to be unfair to be fair. All medicines in the world are not sweet but you have to take it. All surgeries are not smooth but you have to go through it. The one who is asking you to be in discipline is the one who has loved you enough to do it. To do all the right things. To do the things which will make you real good? To let you achieve something remarkable in life. Whether its about saving money, roaming outside, asking you to study, be in your limits, respecting others etc. Parent or guardian can get you anything but why they say "NO" is because they want to make you understand the value of these things in life. To develop the kind of intellectual power so that you can decide what is wrong or what’s right. However still you believe that you have a power if thinking, you know what is wrong or right. Most of you start hating or disliking the person who stops or says no to you. Its human psychology. And that time start arguing with one question "why". Why do you say no all the time?
Why can’t I do this and that? Why can’t I go outside, why can’t i watch a movie this time etc...Why why why... Sometimes they would explain your all why's but you don’t understand or you don’t want to understand and start hating or disliking that person who explained the reason of why. Guys I want to ask you a question here.. Can you ask the same why, when you visit a doctor with your blood sample and he tells you that you've got malaria. Ask him why..ask the same why when he writes a prescription and ask you to have it on time. ask him why, you can’t actually because you know that doctor has invested his 25 to 30 years into it before writing this prescription. That’s why guys. That’s why. Your guardians want you to be the best in life. That’s why.


Whenever you do any mistake or something wrong in student or college life, people would react saying - this is what you learned from your parents. Understand my friends they do not blame you but indirectly they are blaming your parents for that mistake. This is the reason why your parents or guardian or any care taker who is asking you to be in discipline, that person is actually love you care for you and he/she want to give you those wings of discipline through which you can fly over this world. People who can never learn to obey, they never learn to commend.